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Wednesday, January 18, 2006

Letter from a White girl raised in the ghetto, to Black people that think Republicans don't care about them.

There's such a thing as tough love baby. I only want what's best for you. I have a friend that makes her alcoholic son sleep on the porch. She practices tough love herself, but always votes for the Democrats. I don't get it. Here's my advice and it's pretty much the Republican platform for helping Blacks that need help. If you think that Blacks don't need to change their culture and everything that Black people do is so great, quit complaining about how bad the Whites are fucking Black people up. If you do want to change the pathologies plaguing Black culture here goes. Get a job, save your money, kick out your scummy, cheating, lown down boyfriends, value your pussies, withhold your beautiful bodies, quit getting pregnant at 14 and living off the tax payers while trying to get that playa to stay with you. Black men, far from being oppressed, are spoiled beyond belief. Black women coddle Black men in every way possible. Letting Black men get away with murder, and I mean murder. O.J. Simpson, for instance. If you are afraid to make demands of a man, such as fidelity and child support, the man will not respect you anyway. He will think that you are a ho and a chump and treat you accordingly. Trust me, he will probaby move in with, and possibly even marry, a woman that makes demands of him. Setting your value high shows men that you respect herself. Never put your sex life before your pride or your kids. You can live without sex, if it means keeping bad men away from your kids. Black women should start marrying out of their race more often. Black men do it all the time. It's time for Black women to start marrying successful White and Asian men. European men are often highly educated and love Black women. Show some of that devotion to men that work hard and support and care for their children. Those White men won't know what hit them. Remember they've been suffering through 30 years of White feminism. They will be eternally grateful to you.
As for your adversarial relationship with the police, quit using the police as your marriage counselors, kid's fathers, and as substitute husbands. Quit calling the police every time you have trouble with a relative, it's likely your relative will get pepper sprayed, held in a choke hold, stunned with a stun gun, or shot, and you don't want that, so just handle Uncle Ray's crack binge on your own for a change. Don't say that you are afraid of the police and at the same time complain that you don't have enough police presence in your neighborhood. If you don't cooperate with the police to help solve a crime you are a witness to, then don't expect anyone to help you if you are a victim of a crime. There's a book at the library that tells young Black males how to behave if stopped by the police, check it out or better yet, buy it. Teach your kids to respect adults of every race and especially the elderly. Teach them how to keep their voices down in public spaces. Teach them to respect other people's personal property and physical person and privacy. Teach them how to respond to authority respectfully, and to learn how to do what they are told when it is appropriate to do so. Teach them how to delay gratfication. Don't buy them status brand clothing. Teach your kids how to cook. Go shopping for healthy food in Chinatown, you may get dirty looks from the Chinese the first few times you go there but they will get used to you and think better of Blacks because of your family's respectful behavior. Make it a rule to teach your children to resist becoming hostile when someone looks at them. Take them to the celebrations of other people's cultures, not just your own. Take them to Native American Pow Wows, Cinco de Mayo celebrations, Chinese New Year parades. Make them study different countries, they can study countries in every continent, one a week. Teach them that there are standards of beauty in all cultures and that they would not necessarily be considered beautiful just because they move to Africa. Teach them that some Europeans in fact worship the beauty of Black women. Tina Turner is considered a Goddess in Germany. Take an interest in their education, talk to their teachers, pay attention to their homework. Take them to the library when they are small. Quit beating your kids so bad, it doesn't work and probably is counter productive. Use curse words sparingly, curse words help your child express their emotions but not their thoughts. Make your teenagers get a job as soon as they are legally able to. Give them chores, make them help elderly neighbors with their chores. Teach them that many people on earth have little money but still lead very happy lives Tell them a lot of people of lower income levels are still devoted, useful members of their families and communities. Teach them that there is no shame in being a janitor or busboy, or a maid. I have many Black friends who's parents worked 2 and even 3 jobs to give their kids a better life. Take them to places that the upper classes frequent, like Sausalito or Monclair. It's good for them to see how the wealthier classes live and behave. Try to take your kids to do activities they can't normally do in the city. There are groups that take disadvantaged kids river rafting and camping. Black kids need to know there is a larger world out there and that they are not the majority everywhere, like they are in the inner city. They need to know that they may not always be treated respectfully, but that there is redress available for true discrimination. Teach them how to recognize the difference between true discrimination and unintentional rudeness or thoughtlessness. Teach them table manners and how to calculate tips. Teach them to treat waitpersons respectfully and not like slaves.Teach your children the truth about the different cultures in Africa so that they don't think that they are descended from King Tut, and think that their African ancestor's native language was Swahili. Teach them that most White people in the world never owned slaves, and that many Black and brown peoples did own slaves. Tell them that Jesus was brown and Santa was White. Tell them that most people in America on welfare are White. Tell them that welfare is not shameful, but should be temporary. Teach them that commited relationships are to be cherished and that being a good father is the highest calling for a man on this earth. Teach them that the US has made a lot of mistakes and that we are trying to do better and that this is still one of the best places on earth to raise your children Tell them that the real problem America has is too much food, not too little. Tell them that poor people in other countries are far worse off than poor people in this country. Tell them with self discipline and hard work you can live a decent and rewarding, if not luxurious life. This is what I want for Blacks and I do not think that it will happen because Hillary Clinton accuses Bush of running the administration like a Plantation and Harry Belafonte claims that Bush is an evil slave master and that Hugo Chavez is the second coming of Christ. If Venezuela has the answer to American Black people's problems, then I am willing to donate money for all the Blacks, led by Mr Belafonte to go to Venezuela.

7 Comments:

At 10:08 PM , Anonymous jen_with_relish said...

Will you marry me??

 
At 11:31 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

As a black woman I must say I AGREE with everything you said!! I get cussed out all the time for saying and living this way EVERYDAY!! But I am happy and healthy, no oow kids, no drugs, know how to cook and garden,i have hobbies that Blacks consider"white" like by bird aviary, but so what i have always lived and thought ourside the box, love to expereince other cultures, it is refreshing!! Thanks for the commentary sista!!!

 
At 6:04 PM , Anonymous James Frye said...

I agree with some of what you said. But at the same time some of it is ignorant on your part. For example, the police are paid with tax money to be there when that crack-addict uncle is acting stupid. Should you be stereotypical and handle it with the means we normally do.(guns, knives, etc.)I also dont agree with putting all black mean in the category of being dead beat, players, murderers, cheaters and things like that. Thats not all of us. Also its getting old about going after successful men of other races. Maybe black should start back supporting those good black men who can be successful and are trying to get there but just need a little support from a good,strong, loving black queen. Why do you think a lot of these rich black men go with white women? When they were still at minimum wage, they were the only ones still giving them a chance. The black women around them didnt have anything to do with them because they couldnt spend craploads of money them sometimes for no reason. Introducing our children to other cultural things is no problem. Doing it to get rid of their heritage is stupid. Let them see how wealthier classes live and behave? Really is there something really wrong with the way we act or is this just a way of saying itll make them blend in more with the majority? Blacks and their offspring arent the only ones disrespectful,unlearned, and lazy stop listening to statistics and look around you. Blacks arent the only loud, unresourceful people that curse for no reason. Yeah there is a lot of unhealthy food consumption in the world by every race. But were constantly getting all of our information from. Man-educated, God denying scientist. God said everything He made was good and very good.(Check Genesis Chapter 1) Its reconfirmed in the new testament. Paul also said for the meat eater not to judge the vegan and vise versa. Another thing is the United States doesnt need to be praised anymore than it needs to be. I dont believe in pledging to some flag when i cant love the people around be. Its God first eveything else second. The truth is this country no longer follows after God and his instruction. And we'll continue to decline if we dont change our sinful ways.Santa doesnt exist and NOBODY knows what Jesus's race was.If would serve us all good if he parted the sky and He was Mexican or Asian. That would shut all of us up. The question is, would you still accept Him? I know I would. Stop trying to be white. Thats whats being encouraged right now in the latter letter. Ok, yeah there are some ignorant black people, yes there are some stupid, immature black men, yes there are freaky black women that cant seem to keep their panties on. But there is nothing wrong with our race. Black people are no worse than their dirty politicial, undercover mass mudering, still racist, white brothers and sisters. If black people need to do anything, they need to do the same thing that whites, asians, european, south americans and every other race on this planet needs to do. And thats turn back to God. MEN period need to be god-fearing loving, supportive fathers, husbands, sons, brothers, friends, leaders, etc. WOMEN period need to be god-fearing , loving supportive mothers, wifes, daughters, sisters, friends, leaders, etc. The issues are world-wide, not just in one race. We need to work together to solve them with Gods guidance and stop being one of the main things Jesus said never to do, and thats judge.( I had to respond to this because it makes no sense to change a way of life because were told some things are wrong. God has His standard of living and thats what we're to live by. Every race has problems, but those problems are universal. They dont just apply to one race. Its should be Gods way or no way. NOTHING else matters period.

 
At 10:09 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Mr. Frye,

I hope you find my comment here. To be honest I am not sure if you will ever check back in this blog. I found it in an attempt to find other white women who grew up in impoverished neighborhoods and as a minority.

I did, I grew up in Southern California went to a high school 40% Hispanic 40% Afro American 9% Asian and less than 1% all white - a phrase I grew to hate. I was beaten up several times for the color if my skin, even by fellow athletes after a wonderful black man lent me his letterman jacket to stay warm before the 4X400 ( last race at all day Saturday meets) it didn't mean anything to either if us I was a freshman he was a senior and captain of our football team and valuable member if our track team. I had no idea how cold it got in the dessert where this track meet took place, even if I did I did not own a coat like that ( there are more poor "whites" in Americans than black Americans please look at statistics) . Anyway I was jumped later severely after going into a bathroom by 3-4 black women who said I do not deserve to run on their team and should never to talk to him again if I want to live .
Racism Mr. James is a two way street and thus article is extremely accurate in statistical averages and media hype . She the author has no problem with your skin color ( neither do I should you be asking the question, I married a man who's father came from Africa and married a German Swiss women from LA) what her problem is - is the concept that America owes the black CULTURE here because 150 years ago very few white families owned a lot of black families and treated them horribly.
FACTS JAMES CHECK THEM
Every color in the planet has been slaved to another in one form or to another at some pint
Jesus was darker compacted HE WAS A JEW that is UNDISPUTIABLE FACT
Santa although fiction he was European that makes him white
America is still A GOD fearing and loving nation - please do your research on what he then nations do
America feeds most of the world! Again learn real statistics for yourself and do to regurgitate hate for this country that hosts 70% of the worlds wealth where our welfare and disabled live better than most people on a global scale that work more than 60 hours a week and go to bed feeling hunger pains
Being " white" was not be encouraged , what your response indicated to me that you see culture as a color and what the author was saying your color would not be an issue if you attempted to fit in the culture by respecting fellow citizens of all colors, and by doing and teaching your beautiful smart children small things that create a harmonious enviorment for all, volume is one way rather if it be screaming or loud music, another is tip your waitress ( I know this one from experience , I hated waiting on black tables, they were mean to me and tipped nothing) etc.

I agree color shouldn't matter however especially this last decade the black culture in America no longer wants equality ( they haveit - they just do not see it through what they ate taught- more black Americans are above average income earners, more black professional athletes, & a black president who more than 80% of the vote was from "white" Americans) they want a free pass, they want "white" Americams to feel ashamed we were born with lighter skiing, they also want laws not to be applied to them because they have a tough life because of their skin color.

Well sir I raise the B.S. Flage life us hard, racism goes in every direction it's a heart issue , more importantly it's a war , a war to do what'sright legally, spiritually, culturely, and in our home regardless of our skin color, religion or history!!
God bless ,
Andrea

 
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